Archive for November, 2006

Self affirmation

Wednesday, November 22nd, 2006

Self Affirmation

" I have the self-respect, space or esteem that I need to "bartend" my resources or to live large emotionally. I am confident in and gratified by expressing what is close to my heart or in sharing my happiness like a buffet of joy. I take pleasure and pride in the new order I have created by clean sweeping emotional clutter or in honoring what has meaning. I am empowered by recognition and my gift is contentment. "

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Life

Monday, November 13th, 2006

In three words, I can sum up evrything I’ve learned about life; It Goes On.

Quote from RObert Frost….

Hi all,

Yeahh dont u all agree that life will go on no matte what happens!!! well the quote is pretty much wat anyone can just say… it is simple stmt but hard to accept, cos most of us, still live in the past…..No matte what, I ll keep my hope, ideals and expectation of better tommorow each day evryday….. =)

Been quite annoyed these days… I guess my strong expectation on ways of how ppl should behave really puts me down… still learning to expect less and be fully grateful for who I am…

One thing that really bothers me is that reality and feelings dont go hand in hand. Recently, I have been living in the land of dreams expecting somethin, which I know will ended with my own sufferin n pain, but still no matte how hard I tried to rationalise my own feelings, i still cant let it go… funny huh???

wELL I guess I took comfort that This too will shall pass and life continues…+)

Wish me well in my journey n endeavourss….. =)

N May U All also be well n happy…

Lov, Mel

Choices =)

Tuesday, November 7th, 2006

All men n women r born, live suffer n die;

what distinguishes us one from another is our dreams,

whether they b dreams about worldly n unworldly things,

n what we do to make them come about….

We do choose to be born. We do not choose our parents.

We do not choose our historical epoch, the country of our birth,

or the immediate circumstances of our upbringing.

We do not, most of us, choose to die;

nor do we choose the time and conditions of our death.

But within this realm of choicelessness,

we do choose how we live.

Quote from Joseph Epstein

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HI alll,

it s me again, today’s theme is all about the choices we made and whateva it is, dont regret, cos whether its good or bad, it always makes us a better person.. Dont u all agreee! Anyway, dont know what to say today…

Feeling so tired now n geezz time fliessss….. almost 9 pm - time to bed soon hehehe Anyway hope u all b blessed n may ur journey in life will be w/o regrets n filled with contentment.

Lov, Mel

H0p3

Monday, November 6th, 2006

I asked God for strength that i might achieve

I was made weak, that i might learn humbly to obey

I asked for health that i might do great things

I was given infirmity that I might do better things

I asked for riches that I might be happy

I was given poverty that I might be wise

I asked for power, that I might have the praise of men

I was given weakness, that I might feel the need of people

I asked for all things, that I might enjoy life

I was given life, that I might enjoy all things…

I got nothing I asked for - but everything I hoped for

Almost despite myself, my unspoken prayers were answered

I am, among men, most richly blessed!

Quote taken from ROY CAMPANELLA
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=) the above would be the quote of the day…

Life has been very tough for me… Has always been tough, as most of the time it would only be filled wif dissapointment.. tho i know I always learn sth out of it, I still feel insecure with the unpredictable nature of life…… I hav to admit those challenges help me to learn about the world and the people, it also help me to be happy with simple things… yeahhh laughter would be the best medicine for all illness in this world n my word of advice, hopefully  u ll find frens who would bring that smile on ur face n makes u laugh as hard as u possibly can…..

I guess all of us had to face our problems n yeahhh no one can eva run away from it…. the only thing is to let it happen n be grateful with whateva happens, no matte how bad it is.. cos the lesson u get is always precious…

Lov, Mel =)